If a girl won't go out with you because you are "fat", then is she worth it? Or let her go?

Like if you are 6'2" 250 lbs. You play Varsity Football, you have a 4.35 GPA (A's in honors classes count as 5 points, which explains the 4.0+ GPA), you have no enemies, you are ALWAYS in a good mood, love to laugh, you don't drink or do drugs, and you've been called a "shoe-in" for Best Personality senior year. And you also have the following weight maxes:





Squat - 365 lbs.


Bench - 200 lbs.


Power Clean 180 lbs.


(Hex Bar) Dead Lift - 425 lbs.





You've also been told you light up a room when you enter it.





So considering all this, is there something wrong with me, or the girl?

If a girl won't go out with you because you are "fat", then is she worth it? Or let her go?
Dude...see you in the NFL. Focus on YOUR DREAMS, not some loser stuck-up bi**h who will prolly end up serving fries at Wendy's and in a horrible marriage with 3 screaming monkey kids.


Whatever wench you're trying to impress just doesn't recognize a quality man when she sees one. Don't even waste your time with her. She isn't worth the sweat on your shirt after a good workout.
Reply:she is a kind of girl who look directly in your phisical apperance not your character. she isn't deserve a good guy like you
Reply:Ok if she won't go out with you because she thinks your fat then there is something wrong with her. She is not worth it at all if she doesn't like your personality. So there is something definately wrong with the girl and let her go. Plenty more fish in the sea.
Reply:let her go
Reply:the girl, let her go.
Reply:none, there is nothing wrong with you or the girl. you're almost perfect, considering all those.but you see, maybe the girl doesn't see you as bf material. that's why, she doesn't want to go out with you. not all girls are in love with your type, the varsity football type. maybe what she's after is just a simple guy, and you're not it.
Reply:To hear you tell the story it sounds like there's something wrong with the girl..... but there's 3 sides to every story.....


yours, mine and the truth....


Could it be that the two of you just aren't meant to be a couple? Maybe it's not your looks she doesn't like? Sounds like you already know you're a "stud"..... maybe she just doesn't like your personality?


Just something to think about.....
Reply:the girl...don't worry about it, what matter so much to one person doesn't even phase another...however, i have also learned that people can look good on paper but that doesn't necessarily mean they are perfect
Reply:Everyone is different and there is nothing wrong with you. It's the girl's issue. You deserve better than that.
Reply:honey you got it going on, drop that trick if she cant see a good thing in front of her!
Reply:f**k no she ain't worth it! u could find someone else way better, k?
Reply:she is a little girl you need a woman you will find one you do not need to be putting yourself down she is not worth it
Reply:myb it's just me,but i really think you're a good and cute guy.love guy who loves to smile :D ..and that girl,obviously she's not worth it.when you love someone,and she can't except you for who you are,it's a sign for you to move on and find someone better.
Reply:Nothing is wrong with you. U are very bright and smart guy with many talents that the girl is being blind. I say shes into in the beauty in the eye of a beholder. You sound like a perfect guy who comes from a good family that taught u good values and education, of course. LOOK AT YOU! U have NOTHING to lose. YOU have a very bright future. I am sure if she found out that u are a millionaire and u are still fat. SHE WILL ACCEPT YOU.. so this girl u like isnt for you.I say yes" LET HER GO! trust me and dont waste ur breath on her for NOTHING. I would suggest that you find another girl whos not into the eyes of beholder. Find a girl who can enjoys your company, ur humor and so forth . then she is the one for you. Again, nothing is wrong with you.
Reply:Sounds like you are healthy and happy. Move on to the next girl! I can't say that looks aren't at all important because there needs to be something you are attracted to (if she was "fat" would you go out with her?). But beauty does fade. Someone who can make you smile and laugh is much more important because that will last forever. She will learn that eventually and realize that she missed out on something special. Right? Right! :) Plenty more girls out there - have fun! Good luck to you.
Reply:Come on - didn't you read my post on the last question??? You're awesome - she'll be looking you up 10 years from now when she realizes her petty little preferences mean nothing - and you'll be happily married to the love of your life - and she'll be all alone - wishing she had given YOU a chance!!! Yes - what's wrong with HER is the only question here!!! You have NOTHING to prove. Time to find someone worth your time - because you're like the top of the dating food chain!!!
Reply:The girl is superficial. Move on to one that would appreciate all those qualities.
Reply:She is superficial and not worth your time! I wouldn't worry about her cause when you get to college there will be plenty of girls! trust me I am one of them. Then if you go and play football there at college, you'lll get scouted them become a pro athlete and then this girl will scratch her head and regret turning you down!
Reply:Baby let it go. Once you go to college and get drafted she will be hating herself for doing you like that. Don't waste your time worrying about her. Find you a nice girl and she will be looking sick.
Reply:she's a retard superficial ******.


you deserve someone cleverer.
Reply:Dont waste your time. sorry but thats it. if she was rude enough to say that SHE is the one that dosnt deserve you
Reply:LET HER GO! for sure. if she doesnt like you then forget about her. find someone better. im sure you will
Reply:She sounds like she's very shallow and has a lot to learn. You're better off going with someone more mature. You sound a little too obsessed with your body, but you definitely deserve someone better.
Reply:definatly the girl, she's probably looking for a bad boy or something... i'd move on to someone who would appreciate you and all that you can do
Reply:Most women won't pass up a good thing but try to keep your ego in check when you are around her. Arrogance is a turn-off. Also, don't go on about how much you can "press". Plus, it's a little girlie for a guy to say he "lights up a room". There will always be people who aren't attracted to you no matter how perfect you or other people say you are. That's life.





Maybe she can do all of the above AND squat, like, 370 so she doesn't think you're good enough?
Reply:Well I mean if she doesn't want you..you don't really have a choice in letting her go or not right?! I say if she doesn't accept you for who you are then find a new girl who will!!
Reply:all that and she still doesn't like you?!?!


she ain't worth it bro.


pick me as best answer =]
Reply:It sounds to me that you love yourself more than this girl ever will.





Get it?
Reply:You know, you could have the greatest personality in the world, but if someone doesn't find you physically attractive, she doesn't find you physically attractive! Physical attraction is important in a romantic relationship.





Let it go. She's not being shallow and there is nothing wrong with either you. She clearly has no sexual attraction to your body type and she may not even like you very much. I'm sure there are girls out there that you wouldn't think twice about. There's simply no attraction.





You've got to learn that not everyone everywhere is going to think you are attractive, likable or even the least bit interesting.
Reply:somethings wrong with the girl. shes shallow.


I would marry someone thats 300 lbs if I liked her personality enough
Reply:to be frank u sound too perfect


a man with no flaws can sometimes be boring


maybe she just didnt want to hurt your feelings and say that ....








the last statement about 'lighting up a room' sounds ummm a bit gay.



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